Secretly Freaky: What The Quiet Girl Really Wants In The Bedroom

    Being forward isn’t something everyone is skilled in.

    Just because your girl isn’t outspoken when it comes to dirty talk or kinky-ness doesn’t mean she’s not longing for some crazy sexcapades.

    Yeah, yeah, yeah… we know…

    How are you suppose to know what she wants if she won’t tell you? She wants to tell you, but she literally can’t form the sentences. Believe me; it’s just as frustrating for her as it for you.

    She knows she comes off as fragile. She also knows that you’ve probably been with a few girls who have told you exactly what they wanted and how big of a turn on that is.

    By now, you know women are complicated as f*ck, so why should this topic be any different.

    Let me end the guessing game for you…

    Here’s what your quiet girl is silently screaming for:


    Pull Her Hair, Hard.

    There’s something extremely erotic about sexual hair pulling, but saying, “pull my hair” sounds weird to the quiet girl. Don’t think about it, just do it. She wants you to tug away while kissing her neck telling her everything you want to do her. Once you start the dialogue, she’ll get so caught up in the moment; she’ll shock you- and herself- with the words that start rolling off her tongue.



    Pin Her Up Against the Wall.

    Yep. Pick up yet, pin her against the wall (try not to accidentally put her through it in the heat of the moment) and have your way with her. She’s seen this is so many movies that she can’t help but dream about what it must be like. Nothing is sexier than a man who takes control like that. If you want to start your quiet girl’s fire, this is how you do it.



    The Kitchen Counter Is THE SPOT.

    Sure, this may not be the most sanitary place to -uh, ya know,- but hey! that’s what Clorox wipes are for, am I right? Your quiet girl has very loud thoughts and wants you to walk into that kitchen, turn off the stove and have your way with her. Why? Well, Why not? Consider it a weird 1950’s freaky fantasy she’s been hoping you’d make come true.



    Pounce, Literally.

    Nothing says you find your woman irresistible more than a sexual sneak attack. She’s waiting for it…Mid argument, randomly while watching Netflix, while she’s getting ready to go out. She honestly doesn’t care if you mess her hair if it’s for the right reasons. Take her; she’s all yours.


    Crash Her Shower..

    She didn’t lock the door for a reason. Go on, get in there. Maybe shower sex isn’t the easiest, but there are other activities- that will have you steaming up the mirror regardless of how hot or cold the water is.




    Don’t Let Her Scream..

    If you’re good at what you do, it’s easy to tell when your girl is about to lose it. Don’t let her. Cover her mouth and shush her. FOR THE LOVE OF GOD, SHUSH HER. I wish I could explain why a guy covering a girls mouth and whispering, “shhhh” in her ear is enough to make her f*cking die, but I can’t, so you just have to take my word for it. This subtle controlling act with awaken the sexual goddess in her that’s dying to come out.




    Don’t let your lady’s coyness throw you off. Every quiet girl has a freaky side that’s just dying to be let loose, and this is how you unleash it. Go ahead, go home and give your woman what she wants… believe me, she’ll never be quiet again.


    • Tom La Vecchia

      Founder of New Theory & X Factor Media

      Founder and Publisher of New Theory Magazine and Podcast. Serial Entrepreneur who loves wine, cigars and anything that allows to people to connect and share experiences.

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