How Not To Ruin The First Date
Nerds seem to be obsessed with everything but the love. In fact, that is a false impression. Single nerds and geeks have a profile on the online dating site Cupid and search for love like all singles. A good thing is that dating site in USA uses common interests and hobbies as a selection criterion, and if you love books and movies, they will readily offer you candidates sharing the same passions. That is a perfect condition for socially inept nerds to start a conversation and chum up, and a perfect condition for nerds as a whole because a partner interested in the same area of expertise is really a big slice of good luck for them.
Though, love works in mysterious way, and it may happen that a girl you liked as not a nerd, and there is nothing bad about that, though a bit unusual. If you are a nerd and asked out a not nerdy girl, make sure to follow the below tips not to ruin everything in the bud on the first date with her.
- Look great!
The way look makes the first impression before you start to talk. That’s why it is so important to look clean and neat with some style if possible. Even you are clothing is a fuss over nothing, and a mere materialism, take you time to look around you and watch how men wear now. Hairstyle, shoes, and eyeglasses frame are all matters. Put them in order, and you’ll be comfortable with yourself and project confidence.
- Get off your high horse!
Nerds are really passionate about their area of expertise; they can talk for ages about computer technologies, science or books. No doubt, that is quite curious and educational, but at the same time may be quite boring for a girl who is not interested in that. That’s why the best idea on the first date is to get to know each other better and choose a common topic.
- Focus on a girl’s personality
Women like attention, both nerdy and not nerdy. If you show your sincere interest in her personality, you will increase your chances to be liked. Try to find what her interests, lifestyle and future goals are. Maybe, her hobbies intersect with yours at some point, and only then it is a good moment to show your expertise and surprise with your high IQ.
- Add some humor
Nobody like boring and dull people. Humor is the universal hobby. In case your hobbies do not have an intersection point, humor will never fail to unite people and create a comfortable atmosphere. Besides, according to some study, a sense of humor correlates with IQ, therefore, you’ll beat two birds with one stone by showing your good sense of humor.
- Focus on a girl’s personality
Women like attention, both nerdy and not nerdy. If you show your sincere interest in her personality, you will increase your chances to be liked. Try to find what her interests, lifestyle and future goals are. Maybe, her hobbies intersect with yours at some point, and only then it is a good moment to show your expertise and surprise with your high IQ.
- Add some humor
Nobody like boring and dull people. Humor is the universal hobby. In case your hobbies do not have an intersection point, humor will never fail to unite people and create a comfortable atmosphere. Besides, according to some study, a sense of humor correlates with IQ, therefore, you’ll beat two birds with one stone by showing your good sense of humor.
