In life, it’s all about your friends, family and the others around you. However, we all want that person we can spend time with, go on dates with and, of course, sleep with. However, there is no magic formula to finding a mate, you have to go out and do it.
That involves getting out there and meeting people. However, if you are a single man, it can be difficult to know how and when to meet a woman, without coming off super creepy or desperate. In an effort to help you out, here are some of the best places a guy can go to meet a woman!
When You Are Out With Friends
Just being around other people is a great way to potentially run into someone you might want to get to know a little bit better. However, if you are around by yourself just scoping out girls, it’s not always a good look. But if you are out with friends and having a good time, it is much easier to approach or be approached by women.
Whether you are at a bar or at the beach, being with other people can help you look less desperate and can also make you look a bit more cool, for lack of a better word.
A large number of couples are now meeting online and this number is only going to continue to grow. There are many different match making sites and apps out there that can help you meet the right person.
Some apps are a little bit more geared towards fun, while some are more geared towards serious relationships. Your unique life situation and wants will dictate which of the apps or sites you decide to use.
At an Event
Often the most difficult part of approaching or speaking to a woman is coming up with something to talk about. You don’t want to come off as creepy, but also do not want to bore them with your choice of small talk.
However, if you meet someone at an event such as a concert, festival or sports game, that makes the conversation much easier. That is because you each obviously share a mutual appreciation of something, and that can be a great thing to break the ice. There are even specific events geared towards singles, if that is more your style.
At the Gym
While going up to girls all the time at the gym is a no-no, that doesn’t mean it isn’t a good place to meet women. However, you have to do it the right way. First of all, you shouldn’t talk to them until you have each seen and/or acknowledged each other a few times.
Eventually (once she has an idea of who you are, or at least that you are here to work out) you can slowly start to engage in conversation. You also have a built-in topic of conversation, as it is clear that you both go to the gym.