How to Impress a Thai Woman on the First Date

    Thailand has been one of the most favored tourist destinations for the past few years. Countries all over the world, especially from the West, come here for various reasons. It is relatively affordable as a location, though you might want to explore out of the main streets to feel it. 

    This is especially true once you get there since there are many “tourist traps” in Thailand. However, the beauty of their scenic sites along with their food makes it a worthwhile experience to go there.

    However, there is another demographic that comes to this country for a specific reason. Single men, especially from the West, come here to find love and romance. It is not a surprising fact, as most men who belong in that demographic do travel to other countries for this reason. 

    However, there seems to be more of a fascination with Asian women in general as this link says:

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    Reasons Why Single Men Aim For An Asian Partner

    • Exotic Beauty

    One of the main reasons that foreign men travel to these areas is their perception of beauty. In the West, women have different beauty standards compared to the East. Some of these standards may have melded into Asian culture, but most countries in Asia have their own. 

    However, it seems that this “exotic” description applies to women of East and Southeast Asian descent. The slanted eyes, fair porcelain complexion, and small stature add to the allure according to some people.

    • Perceived Submissiveness

    It is unfortunate, but many stereotypes have persisted from the 1900s to the modern-day populace. One of which is the idea that Asian women are more submissive compared to Western women. It makes sense since most of the feminist movements came from the Americas and European countries. 

    However, there were already signs of this movement present in many countries in Asia. Unfortunately, the meek voice, dependency on the husband, and other traits are still correlated to the idea of an ideal woman among these men.

    • Interest in New Culture

    On the other hand, it can always be as innocent as finding a new culture to live in. As most of these men looking for love are already at an advanced age, most of them want to settle down in an area far from where they came from. They think of it as their retirement period, and they want a beautiful girl to accompany them at this time of their lives. However, no matter the age, you can always come looking for love in these places.

    • Finding Another Place for Love

    Meanwhile, other men may have found themselves in a pickle when they were in their home country. They may have had trouble meeting women or they have already exhausted the local dating scene. It just makes sense to look for it elsewhere, since that would be the more plausible option. After all, a new area means new people to meet and it might increase your luck.

    Some of these reasons might sound questionable, but most of them are indeed valid. If you are looking for romance here in Thailand, there are some things that you should know first. You may already have preconceived notions about Thai women, but that does not mean that it is right. There are many ways to meet them, from Thai dating sites to other places meant for casual conversation. If you want to impress one on the first date, below are some tips that you can follow.

    What To Do On That First Date

    • Bring a small gift.

    It may come as a surprise to you, but most Thai women do not like lavish gifts. Instead, they prefer having little mementos like stuffed bears and chocolates. As it is your first date, they will not assume that you would give them something extravagant.

    On the other hand, they would appreciate it more if it is just something that you would like to give them without malice. No matter what you choose, it is going to be a good gift as long as it came from you.

    • Learn the basic language.

    Most people from other countries like it when you try to learn the local language. Thai women are no different, and they would be happy to help you with it. Many people in Thailand can understand English to an extent, but most only have a basic grasp of the language. They would not fault you for bringing a Thai-English dictionary on the first date either, as long as you also help them with their English skills (learn more). 

    • Do not come off too strongly.

    There is a prevailing notion amongst some Thais: most Western men are too arrogant about their culture. In a way, some of them would deem their home country to be more superior to Thailand. If you have this belief, then it would be best to leave Thailand. You would be hard-pressed to look for a date especially if you are just going to sing praises about your own. There is nothing wrong with being patriotic, but avoid looking down upon another culture. 

    Confidence is a good thing since it can make you more attractive. However, there is a thin line separating it from arrogance. At least, that is what Thai women can comprehend as their culture is different than yours. You may need to take it slow, as these women will not be impressed by your boastful attitude or money unless that is also what they are looking for. 

    • Choose an area that would be comfortable and familiar to both of you.

    When it comes to any kind of meet up whether it is the first or succeeding one, always choose somewhere familiar and near to each other. It does not have to be an expensive place, as long as you two enjoy each other’s company. You can go to a bar, but it may not be a good choice for the first date. A restaurant or cafe would be better since you would take the time to get to know each other. 

    • Don’t assume that you would get “any” by the end of the date.

    If you are looking to get laid, then going on a date is the last thing you should be doing. Even though you can find a willing body anywhere, it is still different than meeting someone and getting to know them well. Most Thai women can be pretty conservative, and they would not easily “put-out” by the end of the date. Don’t force the matter either, no means no in any other country.

    When it comes to dating, a lot is going on more than just the idea of you two together. It is a process that can be so complex yet easy to understand. If you are here in Thailand looking for love, you need to adjust as a foreigner. Your culture still matters, but you are already in a foreign land so you need to respect their traditions as well. 

    On the other hand, you also need to be careful while you are in these areas. Even though Thailand is considered safe for tourists, there are still areas that you need to be aware of and avoid as much as possible. 

    For example, when you are choosing an area to meet, always try to meet each other half-way as with other aspects of your relationship. Before it can blossom into a full-romance, the process of getting there is also important.

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